And I tried! A couple of times.
It was so hard. Not the research — the part where I didn't know them. Because a good trip isn't a good list of places, it's a list that fits you. Do you want to be up at six or do you want to sleep in. Will your knees do the stairs. Do you want a guide explaining everything or do you want to be left alone. What will your kid actually eat. Who's coming and what do they need and what would they never say out loud.
I don't know any of that. And asking felt like a deposition before we'd even started.
So I wrote it all down instead. My whole process. Every step, every thing I check, every decision I make so automatically I didn't even realize I was making it. I figured I'd just send it to people and they could run it themselves.
Then I read it back and went: nobody is doing this. This is a part-time job. I'd basically written the most boring instruction manual in the world, and the only person who'd ever follow it was me.
Which is when I realized it shouldn't be a document.